How to assess how well a person's sexual performance?

How to assess how well a person's sexual performance? 

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How to assess how well a person's sexual performance?

Apparently the determining factor is not always as good as what foreplay, long penetration or penis size. 

Many factors determine fabulous / lack of performance of a person when in bed. For women, beware if you have six marks quoted from the All Women Stalk, because it could be your bad partner in lovemaking. 

1. Too Concerned with Yourself 
If you are afraid to appear naked in front of her husband; uneasy when having sex with the lights on or do not allow the pair touched certain parts of the body: it could be a sign that your poor sexual performance. The most important thing in sex is to feel good about yourself and your partner. If too many things to worry about when making love, a sense of comfort that will not be obtained. In order to really enjoy sex, try to be more confident and comfortable with your skin and body. 

2. Do not Want to Say What You Want 
Not only make you look 'earned' during sex, but also your partner. Saying what we want in love is difficult; either because of embarrassment or fear of offended spouse. But communicating the sex is very important. Silence will only make you feel dissatisfied and disillusioned with partner, without her knowing why. 

3. Do not Know What You Want 
It may sound strange, why someone could not know what she wanted? But in sex, it can happen. You do not know what kind of sex position that you like, the body which can increase arousal when touched spouse, when you feel comfortable to have sex. The way to find out is not afraid to experiment. Maybe some sex positions or foreplay does not make you uncomfortable, but by trying, so you and your partner know if it is good or bad for your sex life. 

4. Do not Want to Take Over Control 
Sex activity involves two people, so when you let your husband continues to control, you are not a good lover. Men are more active during sex, but occasionally he would like it if you were in control. If it's too passive, sex will feel boring and not fun for both partners. You do not need to be dominant or overly aggressive, but try to occasionally take the first move, either during foreplay, sex or afterwards. 

5. Laughing During Sex 
Chuckles could break the tension during sex, especially for newlyweds. Laughter is also a sign that you enjoy and see sex as something fun. Even so, giggle or laugh (like a shy schoolboy) during sex, it could be a disaster. You will create an intimate moment that should be changed so romantic and childish jokes. 

6. Too Quiet 
Silence is also one of the signs you are a bad partner to have sex. Why? Silent action that will make your partner thinks he can not satisfy you, or the performance is not good in bed. How often do you make a sound during sex with a partner? If rare, consider again. According to the study, a woman's voice could help men get orgasms. 

In a study conducted by Brewer, G. And Hendrie, CA, found that women who speak out during sex (conscious or not) is actually not to express their own enjoyment. Women speak precisely to help partners achieve climax.